Showing posts with label crochet. Show all posts
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Saturday, May 24, 2014

Christy's first full days with a Mommy and a Daddy!

Christy in the sweater I made for her!
Daddy's Girls for Sure!
The day we brought Christy to Sofia (also known as "Gotcha Day") was Wednesday, May 7.  Thursday was the day to have Christy's passport application submitted and her photo taken.  We slept well, and Christy slept through the night - what a wonderful surprise!  In the morning we got dressed and fed Christy in our hotel room, and then went down for the hotel continental breakfast - good as always!  We were staying at The Budapest and they have an excellent restaurant and lots of selection for breakfast and it even varies from day to day which makes it especially nice when you are staying there for 10 days straight!
Poor baby!

After breakfast we prepared to meet with our team to go to the passport office.  It wasn't far, but it was faster to go by car.  We basically walked right in, as our attorney's mother was already there doing the paperwork.  We were only there for the photo.  Christy does not like to sit in an open chair, so "set her on the stool" was not an option.  Eventually after much stress and much crying by Christy we got a somewhat decent photo of her with her looking over my shoulder....crying and looking very mad/sad.  Then we were whisked back out to the street and driven to our hotel. 
They are making a new round about
So there were walls up for construction
Making photo-ops minimal
We had made arrangements to meet another family who was in Sofia for their "gotcha trip".  We made the arrangements to meet about halfway between our hotels, in the center of the city, to eat at Happy Bar and Grill.  We ended up walking about a mile to the restaurant, but did not find them there.  Christy was beginning to melt down at this point.  It was really hot, and she was unhappy.  We figured out later that the noise of traffic was something she does not tolerate.  So while trying to talk our friends to our location (tough when neither of you know the city, and the area you are in is a HUGE circle around a cathedral).  Eventually they found us and we went in to eat.  We were so stressed out by this time,, and Christy was just barely settled down, that I totally forgot to take any photos of our trip out, except for this shot of Daryl and Christy at the Lion's Gate Bridge.

We then headed back to the hotel for a much needed nap.  Then we were able to meet another mom who was on their "gotcha trip" too.  We had it easy and met them for dinner at the hotel.  Christy and Silas didn't pay much attention to each other at dinner, but later when they were playing on the floor in our hotel room, she laughed whenever he made noise or touched her.  It was so cute!  We did find out at dinner that she does NOT like an umbrella stroller.  She basically doesn't like any seat that is open.  She loves her car seat and a highchair, but open seats cause her to go into full panic in seconds. 

When she becomes insecure, the leg goes up behind the head (or her arm) and out pops that bottom lip.
It's a cross between fear and anger.  We now read her very well, this particular episode, we were still learning.
Thursday night was another good night's sleep.  I can not express how thankful we were that she slept so well at night - we were both still suffering from jet lag in a big way.  We did not have anything planned for Friday, so we pretty much just hung out in our hotel room.  We had plans to meet with Yavor, our interpreter from our first trip.  He drove us to Leo's Pizza - a true Italian restaurant.  I ordered the wood fired pizza, and Daryl ordered a pasta dish.  The food was excellent, and so was the company.  All too soon it was time to go back to the hotel.  We said "goodbye" to Yavor and thanked him for making our first trip so memorable.  Then it was time to tuck Christy in bed and go to sleep ourselves.

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As we were lying there in the dark Friday night (she just would not go to sleep when I rocked her, so I placed her in the crib, hoping she'd settle down and sleep), she started giggling!  Let me tell you that sleep is impossible when someone in the room is giggling!  Especially Christy's giggles - they are adorable cute!  So, like a good mom, I got up and videotaped her giggles in the dark - it was just too cute to ignore.  She eventually quieted down and went to sleep, but she giggled on and off for over an hour!





Thursday, March 20, 2014

Esther is Home! + A Little Rant From Me

Experimenting with my webcam - Esther loved it!
Esther's O2 levels improved during the second half of the night and was holding her own on room air (not great, but OK) and I was able to sleep for a whole 3 hours straight!  Throughout that day she was showing signs of slow improvements.  After consultation he was willing to let her go home, especially since I had shown myself diligent in monitoring her breathing and able to monitor her saturation levels at home too.

It was so very, very nice to sleep in my own bed, and sleep for 11 hours!  I was up every 3 hours for a quick breathing treatment, but had no problems going right back to sleep!

Yesterday I was blessed to have two people come and visit me!  And I was able to finish Christy's blanket and secure all the yarn ends, and then my friend was able to take a photo of it all for me!

Yesterday I saw a mother asking if other moms feel down when they are unable to do more for their kids than to provide the basics (this was a small group of adoptive moms who have children with special needs, and many of the families have 5 or more children at home).  I related to her, as today we are bombarded with pinterest and facebook where people love to show the amazing things they are doing for their children and magaines for mothers and families that tell you that unless your are providing everything for a perfect childhood, then you are not the great parent your child needs, that they are being deprived.  Here is my reponse (aimed directly at me as I can so easily believe the lie and fall into this trap):

"My rant for today.....Our world today is selling mom's a lie, and not only are we believing it, we repeat it by posting/bragging on ourselves when we can actually accomplish something that is "pin-worthy." A good mom is not necessarily the mom who hosts amazing parties, has awesome craft times with their children, takes them on field trips or takes their kids on epic vacations. I have also believed the lie at times and felt like a failure as a mom so many times!!! But just being with your children for the majority of their lives, being faithful to meeting their NEEDS (not their wants or your wants), and loving them unconditionally is what makes a mother a good mother. My best moments as a mom are not parties and craft projects but caring for them when they are sick, holding them after a nightmare, listening to their dreams, fixing their favorite foods on their birthday. The things that show your child that YOU LOVE THEM - the things no one else sees. Doing things for your children so others will see what a great mom you are is cheating yourself and your child. Just LOVE them day in and day out and be selfless in caring for them. My greatest and most satisfying moments as a mom have been when my children want to spent time with me doing something so simple as playing a board game or just talking about what is on their hearts. Just having your children want you to around is a reward in and of itself, especially as they get older! Spending time sharing yourself, what you have learned in life, and investing in your relations with your child is what makes a mom a Super Star mom! But most of all, teach them to Love God and love others and be an example of selfless humility that they can model in their lives. OK....stepping off the soapbox that is in front of my mirror.....off to my prayer closet for confession time...."

That FB status got so many likes and spawned some really good discussion too.  

Yes, we do need to do our best to parent our children.  But that doesn't mean providing everything for your child - but providing what they need, and doing it for them, not for impressing others, but to show your love for them.






Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Auction for Orphans Up and Running!

Help Alexadra Find Her Forever Family!

I have started my first ever fundraising event!



I have started an auction fundraiser as a Facebook Event and you can check it out here:


Facebook Auction for Orphans!


You can participate several ways:



Bid on items - there's my home made soap, hand made print Snap-EZ Pocket Diapers (all smalls so far), household items, clothing, crocheted baby hat, hand sewn baby blanket with matching burp clothes and more - we are adding new items almost everyday!


Carry Your LightList Items Anyone can add an item for auction, just post a photo, a description, a starting bid and an auction ending date. Not money will go to the seller, and the seller must cover shipping (contact me if this is a problem). The auctions can last past the existng date (right now it's 8/6) as we will extend that date as long as we have live auctions! I will donate the money as soon as it is received by me/when auction ends and send the address for mailing to the seller. Thanks everyone!!!






Publicize the Auction - share it on your Facebook/blog/website

Please help these orphans get adopted!  


Each of these children's adoptive parents will need approximately $25,000 to adopt them!

100% of the proceeds go directly to these three children that I am advocating for!

Shipping will be covered by the seller unless other arrangements have been made!




Thanks for helping!







Thursday, May 24, 2012

Goofy Grin to put a Smile on Your Face!

I just couldn't wait until my next full blog post - Jessica got this photo of Carese during a smile fest!
Isn't that the cutest, goofiest grin ever???

Plus a special announcement!
My Daughter, Rachel, has launched her own home business selling hand crafted items:


Wednesday, January 4, 2012

New Year, New Pace

The holidays are over and we had a great time.  We had to simplify how we celebrated due to my pregnancy (more on this later), but we were able to do all the things that our family really enjoys.  The kids went caroling with our church, went hunting for our Christmas tree (we think we had the best tree ever this year!)...

 ...baked and decorated sugar cookies with friends...
oh, the anticipation!
this is serious business!



 ...Rebekah came up with the idea of making popcorn ball snowmen - complete with candy cane arms, Reece's Peanut Butter Cup Hats, mini M&M eyes and smile!  They tasted as good as they looked...

and a few of the kids also made gingerbread houses and graham cracker houses.


This year we also did a few things we haven't done in the past!  Jeremy, Jessica and I joined the Lynden Choral Society to sing The Messiah!  I loved the rehearsals, and after getting past being overwhelmed with the complexity and sheer volume of the music, they really enjoyed the entire experience!  I was only able to make it to about half the rehearsals due to my sinus infection (more on that later too), and was unable to perform, but it was still a highlight for my year.  It has been many, many years since I had the opportunity to sing in a choir, especially to sing challenging music while praising my Lord and Savior!  I was even able to increase my singing range by 3 notes!  I am so looking forward to next year!  I was able to attend one of the performances and it was beautiful.  The Messiah music can bring me to tears at anytime, but due to the disappointment of not being able to be up there with my friends and family caused me to cry through most of it.  I was singing in my heart though!

 Elizabeth turned 6 years old on my 48th birthday - 12/12/11.  Next year we will have an extra special birthday as it will be 12/12/12!

This year I was able (barely) to direct our church's choir!  We have not had a choir for over 3 years, and we were unsure if there was enough interest - there sure was!  We had nearly 60 members!  About half had never sung in a choir, and over half were junior high/high school age.  What they lacked in experience they made up for in paying attention, practicing at home and regular/punctual attendance!  I could not have asked for a better choir!  We were able to perform three times - twice for church services, and once at the Light House Mission!  I have to give all the credit to God - as I was so sick through most of the practice season (we only had 5 practices that were less than an hour long), but He blessed our work, and enabled me to be there for every scheduled practice (I did have to direct sitting down for one!).  I am also looking forward to doing this again next year!

On our way home from a family gathering in Lynnwood, Rebekah counted almost 400 homes decorated with lights!  We also started singing Christmas Carols in the van as we were nearing Lynden to practice the songs the children were going to sing at the Sunday School Christmas Program.  As we drove through Lynden, we tried to carol to people on the street by opening our windows - it was a nice idea, but we only saw two people out and about!  We'll have to try it again next year earlier in the evening in a busier part of town!


Jeremy and Jason helped us "pick" our candy
machine locks so we could get out money out!

Jeremy and Jason came home "Christmas Adam" - a term I heard for the first time this year, meaning that Adam was created before Eve, so the night before Christmas Eve is Christmas Adam!  They had dinner with us and we enjoyed playing games throughout the evening!  
I enjoyed playing scrabble with my oldest kids!

We were given a pool table recently and had finally got it all set up just days before, and it saw a lot of use by all!  God is so good to bless us with something we have wanted for so long, but could not afford! 


 They spent the night and we celebrated all our family traditions on Saturday since I would be directing the choir Sunday morning.

Saturday started off with the children all joining us in our bedroom for opening the goody bags - small gifts and special candies:

 This year we were a little more practical than usual and we got all the children insulated straw cups (they look like the kind you get when you have a smoothy/frappacino, but are sturdy and reusable!).

They were a hit and are getting constant us as water glasses, saving on dirty dishes too!  We then all moved downstairs and tried something new for breakfast - quiche (one with bacon, one with sausage), biscuits and orange juice - everyone helping with something.  We all like it so much we might make that a new tradition!

After breakfast, the big boys helped with clean up and then we spent a few hours enjoying their new toys and playing pool, ping pong and cards.  I got the turkey started, and then took a much needed nap.  Once I got up, each of the children helped with one of the meal dishes, and then we sat down to a sumptuous Turkey dinner with all the trimmings!  Everyone helped clean up and we spent the rest of the day playing together.
Dayton turned 8 years old on 12/20 - he was a very happy boy!

Now to tell you about the things I hinted at earlier in this post.  Starting in late October I came down with a bad cold, that turned into a sinus infection, then bronchitis.  I endured two rounds of antibiotics, which knocked the bronchitis, but did not kick the sinus infection.  The day before Thanksgiving I passed out while reading on the computer!  I was rushed to the ER, and they found that the sinus infection had spread to my ears, and that I had passed out due to dizziness (I had not felt dizzy) from the inflammation in my ears.  Sounds simple, but it was very scary for us all.  the ER doctor told me to REST, drink lots of fluids and put me on two new medications.  I was also directed to have a followup appointment with an ENT, which I did, and he changed my medications and I finally kicked the sinus infection about a week later.  That is why I had to direct sitting down, not looking at my music - I got dizzy very easily for about a week!  I don't think I have ever appreciated being healthy like I did then!

During my illness, the OB noticed that my blood pressure and  pulse were elevated, so on my next appointment, they check it, hoping that it would have returned to normal and that it was caused by the medications I was on, but that was not the case.  They were still elevated and this was cause for concern. So she put me on a baby dose of beta blocker (lowers BP, pulse and cardiac output) and scheduled for me to go to the University of Washington to see a specialist at the mother/infant prenatal clinic - a hypertension specialist.  This happened the day before Christmas Adam.  Daryl was able to take the day off and go with me - and this was good as we learned so much about what was going on with my condition.  They used a very unique (old - 1970 era) ultrasound machine to measure the blood flowing in and out of my heart.  They found that my cardiac output was double what it should be - and that after a week on medications to lower it!  Needless to say this was disconcerting!

The Dr met with us and told us that this is possible indication that I might develop preeclampsia - a potentially devastating pregnancy related illness.  He also said that if they give me too much medication and make my numbers looks great, it could cause Carece to not grow at ideal rates (intrauterine growth retardation), but if the doses are too low  I could develop preecplamsia.  So, since my blood pressure looks very nice if I am lying down/resting, they kept me on the same dose, but I need to take it easy, and rest with my feet up at least an hour in the late morning, and at least two hours in bed in the afternoon.  I also have to not do anything that causes my pulse to be elevated (no exercise beyond walking).

Since then I have been a very good girl, and my blood pressure has gone down - if I do not leave home.  So we are limiting my trips away from home to OB/pregnancy appointments and Sunday morning service.   I am experiencing an early nesting instinct, but I figure that's good as I'll probably have my activities further restricted as we get closer (I was on bed rest for the last month or so for the last two pregnancies).

Starting this weekend, we started an entire new chore system, set up so that, if needed, I will not have to do any housework at all and the housework will still get done.  This has freed me up to rest, and tackle small projects here and there.

So with the New Year, I am living life at a new pace - slow and steady, resting as much as possible.  So far everything is going very well, and the house is looking better than usual!  Business (Snap-EZ) was slow, as usual, during December, so that helped as well.  We'll see how things go as business has already picked up since Christmas, but my girls are more than capable of doing all the labor, I just need to manage what needs to be done and when.

In order to make this work, I have also set up a little area for myself in the living room - from my recliner I can reach two tables, use a laptop (mine died last year, but my son, Jeremy, has loaned me his), care for Esther (meds, diaper changes, therapy/preschool,), access my crochet and knitting projects, answer the phone and play scrabble or cards!  Daryl set up our WiFi so I have access to the business computer and it's laptop, so I can do almost all business related things from here as well!  I also keep trail mix and a large water bottle handy at all times! Also, I can hear almost everything that goes on in the house from here, so I don't miss as much as when I am working from the computer upstairs...I'm seriously thinking about making this a permanent place for me to work - I'll just need to get myself a laptop once the business pays off the last little bit of debt to celebrate!

I hope you have a blessed New Year!

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Carese Faith Einfeld

A couple of weeks ago we went in for our routine 20 weeks ultrasound!  We found out that everything looks great, and that we are expecting a girl!  She even waved at us during the ultrasound.  She was very active (still is) and changed her leg/arm positions quite often during the ultrasound...we might have a very active/busy baby this time around!


After the ultrasound, we went immediately over to the fabric store and purchased some girly yarn!  Here's what I've made so far:
Daryl found the name (we had been in heavy council on the name for a few weeks and could not agree on anything) after spending several long sessions in Strong's Exhaustive Concordance.  He found the Greek word "Charis" which is usually translate as "Grace" and is pronounced "khar-ece" and it is defined as "the divine influence upon the heart, and its reflection in the life; including gratitude" and I just learned that is a feminine noun!  The definitions for "charis" also includes the idea of a blessing, a gift and thankfulness.
Her middle name says it all - God has graciously given us the faith to trust Him for all things, especially in the area of family.   Easton's Bible Dictionary states "Faith is in general the persuasion of the mind that a certain statement is true. Its primary idea is trust. A thing is true, and therefore worthy of trust."


We are having another ultrasound tomorrow - they were not able to get a good view of her heart due to her position. I have since found out that this is quite common and that ultrasounds for viewing the heart are better done a little farther along anyway.  After all the we have gone through with our precious Esther, and all we have seen during our stays at Children's Hospital, we want a thorough evaluation of this little one's heart so we can be prepared if she has a substantial heart defect and she can get the care she need right from the start.  Right now we are trusting the Lord for her health and thanking Him for his precious mercies so far - statistically, a healthy pregnancy without fertility/hormone treatments at my age is rare indeed!  


Pray that our precious Carese Faith will continue to grow strong and healthy and that she will grow to love and serve our loving Saviour, Christ the Lord!


And here's my Christmas Card to you all!




Thursday, February 10, 2011

Thoughtless Thursday

I am really going to try to start blogging every weekday, but Thursdays will definitely be the toughest day for this as it is our "town" day - and we usually have at least 4 appointments to go to, shopping to do, filling up the gas tanks, and other errands to run....so we plan a short school day (only 2 subjects), and I am usually wiped out by the end of the day.

So, my posting, if any will be short and sweet - maybe just photos...like some bloggers who do a Wordless Wednesday - any ideas on a Thursday title that would work for short blog posts, or no words....Thoughtless Thursdays might work....

My Sweet Valentine - you can see the afghan I am crocheting for Daryl just behind her....

The results of Monday's early morning madness (remember the fire?) - the bread didn't taste like smoke at all and baked fine even though we had to open the door and turn off the oven right in the middle of baking the bread!  I was able to make 6 gallons of strawberry/raspberry freezer jam (bought gallon buckets of frozen berries from Barbie's Berries - where we pick every year!)

The beautiful sunset night before last


Rachel's homemade volcano...needs work, but it was fun

Esther like the shoes she was wearing today - she wore them a year ago, but now they are getting too small...they are my favorite too - pink and white Mary Janes...

Saturday, November 20, 2010

And the winner is.....

Melissa - she is a follower on this blog and live in Texas!  So, Melissa, you need to send me your full name and address to my email and I'll ship the coffee and hot pad to you next week!

Sorry I didn't blog at all this week - I thought about it and took some great photos, but I was super busy staying at home and catching up on laundry and working to get our inventory of fabrics, notions and snaps up for sale...I'll take some time next week, I hope, to blog about some of the great, funny, wonderful, weird and happy moments that have been happening around here!

Thanks for posting and following!  Stay tuned as I might do another contest before Christmas!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

I need a little kick off....

I haven't had very many people follow my new blog yet...and I love feedback, and the comments have been few and far between as well....so here goes my first contest here!

I have a box of some of the best coffee I've ever tasted...Gavalia French Vanilla (This is some great coffee! ;~), and a hand knit hot pad made from yarn left overs....check it out, I really liked this little guy:

 

If you would like to win this box of coffee, please post a comment to this post, telling me how you first heard about this blog!

You can get your name entered in the drawing a second time if you click on "follow me"...I will automatically enter those who are already following me (all 9 of you ;).

You can get your name entered a third time if you will leave a comment on one other post I have made since I moved over to blogger on October 20.

I am willing to ship these to anywhere in the world, so location does not prohibit you from winning....but it would be awesome if someone local won!

I look forward to meeting you all!

I'll draw the winner using a random number generator a week from tomorrow, so you need to have all your entries in by 6 pm PST on November 19.